Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Lunch with Min and the Kids

This morning Min popped by and checked in on us like she normally does, but with our days together counting down quickly she made a suggestion that we do lunch today. In a few days they would be heading on 3 week holiday in Venice, a cruise around the Mediterranean and Barcelona...then only a week and a half after they get back the get packed up and moved back to Singapore. I made one of Min's favorites...Angel Chicken Pasta.

Addison and Yi Xuen had a lot of fun putting together a puppet show. They practiced in the living room and then came back into the dinner room to show Min and I.

I love just getting to sit with Min and visit about everything...our kids, our hubby's, holidays, cooking and more...mostly we sit around and compliment each other and help each other feel better about being moms, wives and women. Oh, how I am going to miss that!


Of course, not lunch is complete without dessert and brownies with ice cream is a great way to get the kids to sit still for a while to get a picture of the three of them.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Kevin's Surprise Birthday in England

Kevin is not one to like surprises but I love to surprise people and even though I set up a surprise party for him back in the States, we couldn't go without a party in the UK with our friends here. I recruited Danny Wong to get Kevin out of the house for a few hours. He came up with a classic excuse of having to go look for a coffee table at M&S in town but first he had to drive 45 minutes in the total opposite direction of Spalding to look for some shoes. How funny!


Kevin had absolutely no clue what was going on and the look on his face when he opened the door was the greatest. He said he was actually looking forward to coming home to get a long nap this afternoon but we had better plans for him.


We invited a lot of our neighbors to come over for a good old American chicken wings party. I had bought loads of sauces back in the States like Buffalo Wild Wing's Spicy Garlic and Asian Zing and some other Hot Wing Sauces and Blue Cheese dressing.

I had made some American cupcakes for Kevin's cake...one of those 4th of July mixes, but then Debbie brought a trifle, Sarah brought strawberries and cream and a strudel and Jane brought a pavlova! You never have a shortage on puddings at an American/British BBQ.























It did start to rain on us half way through the evening so we all had to move into the house, but what's a little closeness among friends.

Here is Danny Wong with two things you often see with him...his camera and my son! These two are like peas in a pod.

We all tried squeezing in our tiny kitchen to sing happy birthday to Kevin. With all the birthday's we've been having lately, Addison thinks each party is for her own birthday and insists on helping blow out the candles and asks for her presents. This time no presents for her but Kevin got an amazing British beer mug from the Wong's and Clayton/Gorman's with his birthday engraved on it and from Mike and Debbie he got some lovely bubbly. What a great day, but at the end Kevin asked me slow up on the surprises for a while...we'll see!!!

Monday, July 20, 2009

Smooth Sailin' (Flyin' I guess)

Our travels back to the US and then back to the UK seemed to go so smooth. With all the trouble we had last time we added in extra precautions for potential delays, so with nothing going bad we had plenty of waiting time at the airport.  Our three hour layover in Chicago let us eat at Chili's one last time which was nice and we had plenty of time to get the kiddos in their PJs before we boarded the plane.  The flight went so quickly.  After battling Harry a bit to get him to sleep, he was out until we got to England.  Addie on the other hand couldn't get comfortable so for part of the flight I laid my legs across both of our seats and laid her on top off my legs.  We ended up getting in a whole hour early which was nice, but the car ride home was the toughest I think because I was sooooo tired and I could not get comfortable.  Upon our arrival home we got a wonderful greeting from the Wong's and Min left goodies in the fridge for us.  We also got treated to dinner at their place that night and even though we were super tired it was great to get together with friends.  We will surely miss this tradition we so wonderfully started with each other.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Fish Fry

What a way to finish out a trip home but a good old fish fry for lunch.  With coals still burning from the night before, dad broke out the giant fry pan and we cooked up fried potatoes and the bass fillets from what Dad and Kevin caught the day before.  I was a bit crazy to spend too much time by the smoking fire with a 20 hour journey ahead of me but I had to get in the action.  We used to do this same thing when we would go camping at Iowa lake but instead of one huge cast iron skillet we would have about 4 smaller ones all over the fire.


This had to be some of the best fish I have had in a really long time.  I love the fish and chips in the UK much better than anything in the US, but nothing touches freshly caught bass on an open fire.

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Gettin' Groceries

Before we were going to leave to head back to the UK for another year, I thought I would stock up on a few little goodies from the local grocery store.  I essentially went down every aisle and asked, "Can I get that in my local Tesco or Sainsbury's?", then I had to ask "do I really need to have that?", then I had to ask "can I really fit all of this in my suitcase?"  I had to put a few things back after that last question, but it was a lot of fun.  

Here is what I bought:  
  • box of Kix cereal
  • 2 jars Miracle Whip
  • 5 boxes Kraft Mac & Cheese
  • 3 sleeves of Reese's Peanut Butter Cups
  • 2 containers of Crystal Light Lemonade
  • 20 Tootsie Pops
  • Large bag of semi-sweet chocolate chips
  • 4 boxes of pistacio pudding (I love watergate salad)
  • Box of hot apple cider mix packets
  • Box of Little Debbie Oatmeal Creme Pies
  • Two boxes of Keebler Grasshopper Cookies (my neighbor Sarah has always wanted to try the Thin Mint Girlscout Cookies and this was the closest I could get)
  • 2 packets of wing mix
  • 2 packets of taco mix
  • 2 packets of fajita mix
  • 3 packets of French Onion soup mix
  • 1 bottle of Log Cabin syrup
  • 2 small cans of Busch's baked beans
  • 1 container of Famous Dave's Pork Rub marinade
  • 1 bottle of real vanilla extract (I can get this in the UK but it's cheaper in the US)
Not pictured here that I also brought back was:
  • 1 bottle Cookies BBQ sauce (an Iowa favorite)
  • 1 bottle Famous Dave's Sweet and Zesty BBQ sauce
  • 1 bottle Frank's Hot Wing Sauce
  • 2 bottles Buffalo Wild Wing's Spicy Garlic Sauce
  • 1 bottle Buffalo Wild Wing's Asian Zing Sauce
  • 1 package of Hershey's chocolate bars
  • 1 container of Greek marinade seasoning (my dad's favorite for prime rib)
  • 1 bottle of Kraft Blue Cheese Dressing (for wing dipping)
  • 2 containers of Hidden Valley Ranch dressing powder (the bulk ones that make like 16 cups of salad dressing)
Yes, my bags get searched by the TSA, but I've never been stopped in customs.  None of it is illegal to bring in the UK but I'm sure if I got stopped they would ask lots of questions.  I would just have to answer that I'm a "Crazy Yankee" that loves UK foods but I have to have a few goodies every now and then.

Family Fun

For our last full day at mom and dad's we tried to fit in a lot of stuff we hadn't gotten to do in the past two weeks.  Dad and Kevin went bass fishing early in the morning...like 5:30 AM after getting back from a wedding at midnight.  Looks like they had some good luck.  Kevin was pretty excited to get a second try at his new rod and reel.















Crystal got to come out to mom and dad's one last time before she had to go to work.  As the boys were admiring their fish, Crystal and I admired our little ones while sitting in Grandpa's boat.














We got to chill out in the house a bit.  Addison got a special story read to her by Auntie Crystal and Harry tried listening in as well.  




















After two weeks, Bo finally warmed up to Uncle Kevin and took a little rest with him on the couch.




















Then Auntie Crystal and Grandma broke out the sidewalk chalk and the girls went to town drawing faces, rainbows, hopscotch, and more.  I think Crystal and Grandma were having the most fun though.














That night it was finally cool enough and the humidity had gone away to comfortably have a bonfire, one of my most favorite summertime activities.  We roasted hotdogs and brats and made s'mores...oh yeah!  We packed up the ol' tub with plates, silverware, and all of our goodies like mom used to when we were kids.  I also found out why we always brought along a wet wash cloth to cook outs and camping.  I always thought it was a practical thing my mom would pack along with us and so I've always done the same.  I found out that when my mom was little they didn't have a lot of money so instead of napkins, my grandma would set out a few wet wash clothes amongst the 8 kids so they could wash off their hands.  














Bo gets all cozied up to mom.  He has been battling some kind of bug since we've been back and he's just gotten over the bad part so he's pretty wiped out.  He so looks like Crystal Jo when she was little.  It was a great night and loads of fun and a perfect way to end a trip back home.














What an amazing sunset as well.  It is just so peaceful at mom and dad's and Kevin and I would so love to have a place like this when we move back to the US.  We can always dream!

Friday, July 17, 2009

The Wedding Day

Today was the big day.  Addison Marie was going to be the flower girl in my cousin Whitney's wedding.  We had found the dress and the shoes and had been reading the "How to be a Flowergirl" book for weeks and this was the day.

Before we headed over to the wedding I thought I would try curling Addison's hair to see what it would do and if it got messed up in the car we could touch it up.  I tell you curling her hair was like trying to braid the hair of a cat.  She kept moving all over the place and I was scared to death that she would get burnt, but luckily she did very well and looked soooo cute.














As we were getting ready to leave we had asked Addison to sit in the rocking chair until we were ready to load her in the truck.  When we came back we found her asleep.




















We got her hair touched back up and Whitney got her some really cute hair clips to put in.  She found her cousin friend Aubrey and she was set.



















She couldn't wait to show her daddy how cute she looked as well now that she had her basket.




















And of course she searched all over the place to find Uncle Casey who was one of the groomsmen.














We went from just a family of 5 to now a family of 10 and now we can use words like aunties, uncles, cousins, neice, nephews, grandma, grandpa, brother-in-law and more.  Mom and Dad you did good!














Finally got all the kids to pose together and they all look so adorable.  Still working on Harry to walk like the other two, but you can feel the love between these three amigos.














Our entire Schafbuch family...does Jordan really know what he's getting himself into?  No, we are such a close family and we just keep getting bigger...27 strong and Grandpa is still always with us no matter what.  Whitney and Jordan got married at a Jack Nicholas designed golf course right in the heart of Iowa and it was absolutely beautiful.  Funny enough when you worry about it being too hot for an outdoor wedding in July, it happened to set a record low temperature that day.


The wedding party with the cutest little flower girl and ring bearer who was a little boy Whitney used to babysit.  I was really worried about Addison paying attention during the pictures because I have had the toughest time getting her to pose but something clicked in her and she turned it on and was perfect.  She smiled and looked at the camera and stood still for the first time in her life.


Addie quickly befriended little Jordan and kept encouraging him that he could walk down the aisle too.  All before the ceremony the two of them played with a fun little sticker book and Addie's last words out the door were, "Come on, you can do it, walk with me."

Addison did so well with her petal dropping.  I walked along behind her with the ring bearer's mom to make sure she knew where to go.  She gently dropped a petal at a time and then at the steps she grabbed a handful and it happened to be the entire basket full and dropped them.  As she started to walk down the little steps she realized that she didn't have any petals left so she went back to pick them up and they were blowing away.  I quickly helped her grab some more and put them in her basket and coax her back down the aisle and she made it all the way down smiling all the way.  Even when she got to the front she stood up front with the girls for the longest time and I think she would have stayed the whole time but she followed the ring bearer when he was tired of standing.  I tried keeping her warm since it was a bit chilly and she was in a sleeveless dress but the cold didn't seem to bother her, but you could see all the flower girls just shivering and their teeth chattering.  Everyone must have thought she made a valiant effort because the pastor even made reference before he started that he had never seen a flower girl do such a good job.














After the ceremony while Addison was still glowing about her role in the wedding I latched onto my little boy to give him a little lovin' since I've been attending the flower girl all day.


As soon as Addison got inside the reception, she started cutting a rug.  First with Grandpa Jeff and then with me, then some other little girls who were done eating and then she worked to get anyone who stepped on the dance floor to dance with her...all night long.  She was having an absolute blast and never slowed down and she got pretty upset when we had to go home.  Granted it was 10:30 at night and we had over an hour drives home back to Grandma and Grandpa's house.

It was an absolutely beautiful wedding and one of the coolest ceremonies I've been at.  The pastor had the Whitney and Jordan write letters to each other and the message was based on Ephesians 5 where it talks about husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and women are to submit to their husbands.  Whitney you were a beautiful bride and Jordan you are a pretty cool dude...welcome to the family!

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Visiting Our Old Stomping Grounds in Ames

We got a special treat today!!!!  We went up to Ames, the home of Iowa State University, Kevin's and my old stomping grounds.  It has been several years since I had been back and it was awesome.  For lunch we went to Hickory Park which is the most famous place to eat in all of Ames and has some of the greatest BBQ and ice cream sundaes.  It was so weird to think back on all the countless times that I had eaten there and now I had my two kids there.





Addison gave her grilled cheese sandwich a thumbs up.








My most favorite thing about HP is the David's Delight sundae with vanilla ice cream, butterscotch sauce, chocolate sauce, malt powder, whipped cream and a wafer cookie.  They are now serving a single serving so I couldn't help but get some since I've come all this way.


Harrison liked the food as well but he especially liked the ice cream as well.




After lunch the boys went to work a bit on the rental house and the girls brought the kids to Iowa State's Reiman Gardens.  It was started while we were in school, but has expanded it a huge facility for loads of people to enjoy.

We first checked out the butterfly house.  This was a huge room behind Addison where the butterflies were hatching.


Inside the butterfly "house" you weren't allowed to touch the butterflies and you couldn't bring in strollers so it was a bit difficult carrying Harrison and keeping Addison from trying to grab any of the hundreds of butterflies all around us and try to take pictures at the same time....yikes!

We did see lots of different colors and sizes of moths and butterflies, but none of them thought they should come along with us which was good because the lady told us that if any do get out that they have to file a claim with the USDA or something crazy like that.



Next we walked through the children's garden which had a dinosaur dig site where kids could dig up fossils.  There were so many fun things to see that it was hard to keep Addie moving because she just wanted to play.
















Harry even joined in the play.  

Throughout the flowers and hedges and other floral displays in the gardens there were dinosaur statutes and Addison wanted to pet them all.  Especially this one that had baby dino eggs next to it.  It's hard explaining to a 2 1/2 year old what a sign says when they can't read it for themselves that you aren't supposed to touch the dinosaurs.



Jack Trice stadium is a place Kevin and I spent a lot of time in the fall during tailgating and football games from our freshman year in college to alumni years.  They put up a new sign on the back of the score board with the new Iowa State logo on it (which really makes it look like we are trying to be like Ohio State), but it looked pretty sharp.







After a long day, the kiddos were pretty tired and got to bed early but we got them to sit still long enough to get a picture with Grandma and Grandpa Dea.  We had a great few days with them, but had to say good bye until they come in December for Christmas to visit us.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Living History Farms in Iowa

Today we went with Kevin's parents and brother's family to Living History Farms in Urbandale, Iowa.  My Grandma and Grandpa Schafbuch wanted to take us when we were kids but we never ended up getting to go so it was a real treat for me and our kids as well.

Living History Farms is a 500-acre outdoor museum dedicated to teaching the history of agriculture and rural living over 4 time periods during a 300 year period.















Here we are starting out adventure through 300 years of Iowa's agricultural history. It was also a typical Iowa summer day - hot and humid - great way to set the tone.




















In the 1700, the Ioway Indians raised their own corn, beans and squash.  They made lodges out of bark to keep them cool in the summer and used cattail leaves to create walls of their lodges to keep them warm in the winter.  During hunting expeditions they lived in tipis made of buffalo hides.  This lodge that Sally, Addie and Lindsay are looking in was quite small but a family of 10+ would live in it together.


In the 1850's farm they had pigs and other animals that Addison loved getting to see.  They also had a log cabin with the open fire and the family sitting outside eating their supper.  This farm was to portray the time when Iowa became a state in 1846 and when families were starting to produce enough food to now sell some of it for a profit versus being sustainable and feeding only their own families.

The 1900's "Horse-powered" farm was loaded with lots of familiar things for me.  The large barn, corn crib, chicken coop, old farm house and pump well.  These are all things I grew up with on the three different farms that I lived on before moving on to college.  

In the 1900's farms changed a lot because they used bigger barns to house animals, store grain and hay for winter feeding of animals, milking cows and store tools and equipment.  

After bringing Harrison through the large barn to see the calves and horses, Grandpa Mike held him up on the fence so he could get a better view.


Addison loved making the hand pump work.  It took a lot of work on her part just to get a little bit of water to come out so she asked any one she could to help her.  We used to have a pump well like this in front of our first house in Iowa and my brother, sister and I would use it to cool down in the summer versus having a swimming pool or sprinkler.  Most pumps like this on the farm used a windmill to help pull the water up as farmers were looking for other means to power equipment than just their own two hands.



Horses were a very vital part of the farm in the 1900's as they not only were used to pull heavy plows, they helped plant the crop, hauled grain and hay to the farm yard from the fields, and pulled the manure spreader.  These were draft horses that were used so they are really wide on top and would be very difficult to actually ride.  We watch this horse crack corn.  It was hooked up to the machine and walked around in circles to crack corn which was thought to help animals digest it better.

I really like the old farm house.  They had an old wood burning stove like had in the summer kitchen of our old house and the pantry was filled with "antique" kitchen tools that I've seen my grandmas and mom use and still do.  They say that the Mason jar made a huge difference in the way food was preserved in those days and just behind me was a shelf full of canned fruits and veggies.  Ahhh...I was in heaven!  One of the other cool things we saw were these spice drawers that hung on the wall and you pulled out little drawers to get what you wanted out.  Also these lantern sconces that had the reflectors behind them to shine out the light more where really cool.  


In the visitors center there were some play John Deere lawn tractors that the kids liked playing on.  The center was also nice because it was air conditioned like most farm houses on the 2000's!!!  They had displays on what a kitchen from then 1950's would look like and from the present time.  Also displays on all the things made from corn and soybeans...Iowa's main crops.


Harry and Kevin living it up large on the John Deere Gator.








Waiting for the tractor ride back the kiddos all found haven with their daddy or grandpa.



We also toured around 1875 town of Walnut Hill which represents a post-civil war town on the Iowa frontier and shows how farmers and craftsmen and merchants all heavily relied on each other.  One of the coolest things we saw was the printing press.  They had all the cases full of the different types and fonts that would be used to make up newspapers.  Unlike today where you can get the latest news on your cell phone and internet, back then it would take weeks to get news out to people sometimes.


The church was the only thing on the site that was not new to us.  Ryan and Lindsay were actually married in this church just 7 years ago.  Here they are today with their little girl Emma.










The church is really neat and has this amazing stain glassed window that you see behind Kevin and Addison.


We also visited the bank, the broom making shop, the cabinet maker, the millinery, the blacksmith, the pharmacist and doctor's office.







Things we learned:

Back then the cabinet maker made all furniture on special order and would often take months to complete an order.  Since mail orders were becoming more popular at that time the cabinet maker was one of the first occupations that were phased out of a local town because he couldn't adapt.  The local mortuary ended up taking over the lumber yard as he could whip up a coffin in no time and help repair any other woodworking needs you had.  
The blacksmith on the other hand still thrived even though they didn't make many things since there were now factories mass producing nails, horse shoes and equipment.  He ended up becoming a machinist and repaired equipment.
We saw how doctors would mix up medicines and grind them up and put them in little satchels for people or made them up into little pills.  We saw some pretty gruesome looking tools used and a drill used to make a hole in your skull if you had a persistent headache...yikes!  Most doctors didn't end up getting paid for their services with money because people couldn't afford it.  They did offer up food, firewood, and other services instead.


One thing I thought was really fascinating that we learned at the millinery was about what the women wore in the 1870's.  It would be very scandalous for a woman to leave her house without wearing a hat.  Hats were often very expensive so a woman would have to redesign her hat with different ribbons and other items to keep up to date.  Also they always wore dresses and often in 4 layers.  They would first put on pantaloons, then a very plain slip to cover the pantaloons, then a fancier slip in case the dress flew up so it would have something pretty under it and then they would have on the dress.  Also at that time they thought ladies with big booties were attractive so lots of women would where another layer f a bustle under one of their slips. Then on top they would wear a plain shirt then a dressier one and then a corset.  This is what they would where when they would go out...when they just stayed home they still wore about 2-3 layers while working in the house in the summer's heat.  I was wearing a short skirt and tank top and I was sweating up a storm.